About breaking up with someone..
Hi!
I hope the rain is treating you well.. Say welcome to another post. This time let's talk about something you guys know really well.. "Breaking up with someone", ¿How hard it is?, ¿What happened?, ¿Are you hurting the other person because of your decision?.. And a whole bunch of questions that come to our minds when this is happening..
The first time that I decided to break up with someone I was 15 and he was "the love of my life" (that's what I thought) it wasn't easy for me to say good bye to someone who was important to me, someone who was part of my life.. It's hard to hear someone begging you with all his heart: "Please don't go".. but at the inside you know you have to do it (even if it hurts), I never was that brave before.. After that he decided to change his life and when I knew about those changes I felt really happy for him.
Well.. In this case it wasn't easy to break up with him, but back in those days it was the best decision that I've ever made in my life, right now I don't know anything about him, but the last time we talked it was like we were friends, like nothing happened between us.. and honestly I felt happy with that..
This break up thing seems really easy when we're not talking about us making this decision ( I hope you guys understand what I'm trying to say) but when we are in a relationship, it doesn't feel any good when is the other person who is gonna break up with us.. we start to think ¿what did we do wrong?, ¿ any hope?, ¿is this the end?, breaking up is not an easy thing, is hard, is painful and confunsing..
Is not easy, because you're not sure if you're making the right choice
Is hard because you're trying to close a chapter and you don't know for sure if it's the end..
Is painful because (most of the time) you're still in love with that person
And is confusing for all the reasons that I just said
Well, guys.. If you're going through this never think that this is an easy decision for your couple.. to say to you that it's better that you guys break..
If you love him / her you what them to be happy even if its not by your side, to do this you need a few things: patience, understanding, distance and love ( I know the last one is a lil corny, but it's true), maybe he / she wants you back at the end and you can start over.
Nashy
I hope the rain is treating you well.. Say welcome to another post. This time let's talk about something you guys know really well.. "Breaking up with someone", ¿How hard it is?, ¿What happened?, ¿Are you hurting the other person because of your decision?.. And a whole bunch of questions that come to our minds when this is happening..
The first time that I decided to break up with someone I was 15 and he was "the love of my life" (that's what I thought) it wasn't easy for me to say good bye to someone who was important to me, someone who was part of my life.. It's hard to hear someone begging you with all his heart: "Please don't go".. but at the inside you know you have to do it (even if it hurts), I never was that brave before.. After that he decided to change his life and when I knew about those changes I felt really happy for him.
Well.. In this case it wasn't easy to break up with him, but back in those days it was the best decision that I've ever made in my life, right now I don't know anything about him, but the last time we talked it was like we were friends, like nothing happened between us.. and honestly I felt happy with that..
This break up thing seems really easy when we're not talking about us making this decision ( I hope you guys understand what I'm trying to say) but when we are in a relationship, it doesn't feel any good when is the other person who is gonna break up with us.. we start to think ¿what did we do wrong?, ¿ any hope?, ¿is this the end?, breaking up is not an easy thing, is hard, is painful and confunsing..
Is not easy, because you're not sure if you're making the right choice
Is hard because you're trying to close a chapter and you don't know for sure if it's the end..
Is painful because (most of the time) you're still in love with that person
And is confusing for all the reasons that I just said
Well, guys.. If you're going through this never think that this is an easy decision for your couple.. to say to you that it's better that you guys break..
If you love him / her you what them to be happy even if its not by your side, to do this you need a few things: patience, understanding, distance and love ( I know the last one is a lil corny, but it's true), maybe he / she wants you back at the end and you can start over.
"Forever mine, forever yours"Enjoy the rainy days, guys..
Nashy
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